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Well, it’s the truth isn’t…

Well, it’s the truth isn’t it? Even though at first glance, the definitions given here can be seen as contradicting, the truth lies in opening your mind to the situations where two of these statements are true.

Finite is defined as having boundaries, limitations. Your mindset is the very thing that limits your capacity to receive and achieve. If you’re in the wrong frame of mind, you will be on the wrong path every time.

However, at the same time, it is the mind that is limitless. Your mindset limits you, but you set the limits on your mindset. So the only thing standing in your way is you.

There truly is no other reason as to why you haven’t gotten what you’ve wanted in life other than you. You place the limits based on how far you think you can go.

If you truly feel you can go the extra mile, you will go the extra mile. If you feel you can achieve the seemingly unachievable, you will achieve it.

There is no secret other than want it enough to acknowledge that you can have it. Decide today that you’ll stop placing limits on your capacity to achieve by realizing you’ve been the only thing standing in your way.

TAG someone that needs to know they are limitless!

Morning inspo. Slay the day…

Morning inspo. Slay the day away fellow Queens. You killed it this week, so end it with a bang! Make it your goal to get more done today than you did for the entire week. If you did it before, you can do it better this time around.

A woman who is certainly slaying the day is founder of @visionocity_magazine – recommended follow if you’d like to follow more of your focus today.

The very first long post…

The very first long post I ever made for MHB was this exact topic, coupled with me sharing a few outfits of my own. This itself is an important topic that must be addressed.

How you treat yourself ultimately tells others how to treat you, and the easiest way to express that is in your presentation. I don’t have to be the one to tell you that first impressions matter, but what matters even more is how you feel about the impression that you’re giving out.

This must be addressed. You externalize the impressions you have about yourself so if you truly want to start making moves and changes in your life, ask yourself first what story you’re telling others with your style.

Now anyone can exude confidence and sophistication without buying expensive brand clothing. It’s not the cost of the clothing that defines your worth, it’s how you assemble the ensemble in a way that best makes you FEEL like a million bucks.

If you’re not feeling like you’re a woman on a mission by the time you’ve gotten all dressed up and ready, then tweak and change something until you do. Sorry fellas, she’s gonna be a couple more minutes. When I started dressing the way that I felt resonated with how I felt about myself was the moment I started walking with my head held high.

Try playing around with some outfits today. Browse pinterest, lookbook, and instagram for inspiration.

Remind yourself that you are a woman that is worth getting to know. You are a woman that knows what she wants out of life and knows her worth. You are woman that likes to take care of herself because she loves herself enough to know she deserves to be taken care of.

That impression that you feel will be externalized effortlessly the moment you switch on that mindset. I was once offered a job at Michael Kors simply by walking in the store with this mentality. Externalize the impression of “I’m worth it” – because trust me, you are.