Motivational

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    Examine the people around you…

    Examine the people around you who may be preventing you from moving forward in life. Energy is contagious, infectious, far reaching, and highly influential. Most of you right now know off the top of your head who those negative anchors are in your life (or have been). Be tight lipped towards naysayers about your progress and be very selective with who you invest your time and energy in. We only have a limited amount, and every amount of energy expended brings about returns in one form or another.

    Investing in positive atmospheres and inner circles will breed positive experiences. The moment you make that switch is the moment you will see an imminent change in your daily emotions, habits, and progress.

    Don’t try to keep negative relationships in your life out of fear of appearing “shady”. Your happiness should come before anyones ego, so pull that tooth out before it does anymore damage to the rest of your mouth.

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    Don’t cheat yourself out of…

    Don’t cheat yourself out of living life to the fullest out of fear that you won’t know where to go. You can decide what your ideal reality will look like as you’re still currently stuck in the wind. The moment you have a plan, get ready, then LEAP out of the wind current and into the path of no obligations.

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    If you haven’t read the…

    If you haven’t read the previous post, I recommend reading the one titled “We Stop at Nothing because nothing stops for us” otherwise this one won’t make sense.

    If you were to be pulled from your wind current at this very moment where would you decide to go instead? Out of the path of conformity, away from your 9-5 and away from the people you’re forced to associate with on a day to day. Away from the pressure of your parents or close relatives. Separated from the expectations placed upon you by your peers, away from impressions placed upon you by social norms.

    If you were to suddenly be thrown out of the wind current and onto the side of the street, what adventure would you imagine? Where would you decide to go from there after realizing that you have the legs to able to walk wherever you please? Without the wind current pushing you from one destination to the other, what journey would excite you enough to finally use your legs for the first time and start walking?

    After being tossed about in the wind for so long, it can be both exciting and scary figuring out where to go on your own. There is no road map, there are no rules. The only thing you are left with is your imagination and your determination. If you’re currently still in this wind current, what would it mean to you to NOT have everything set for you? What roadmap would you set instead?

    This is very important because often times I get messages from people saying they want a better life of abundance and happiness but don’t even know what that would mean. You can’t just want something to want it, you have to know where you’re going otherwise you will just be wasting precious time.

    Choosing your own destiny means figuring out who you are, what you’re capable of, where you will go, and how you will get there. Simply walking anywhere by CHOICE is better than lying still like a newspaper on the ground or being tossed about in the wind. However, you should have an IDEA of where you’re going. Otherwise during times of adversity where you become lost, you may feel so frightened and regretful having ever started walking that you quickly return to the wind current.

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    A few years ago I…

    A few years ago I allowed life to kick me around like trash on the side of the road. As Katy Perry would say, like a plastic bag drifting through the wind, I was tossed about like the other debris not heavy enough to stand its ground and choose where it wanted to go.

    I had no concept of the value of time as the only timelines that were important were school, weekends, allowed vacation time, and back to the slaughter. Just like the others who were thrown into conformity, we were blown whichever way the wind blew never really questioning if we would be able to go anywhere else.

    It wasn’t until I was separated from the wind, away from the other flock that my presence finally became still as I settled to the ground. As I watched the other plastic bags being pushed through the current, getting degrees, getting full time jobs, having babies, getting married – I wondered if I would ever be able to join the wind current again.

    For years I laid on the ground and examined the others like fish at an aquarium. I wanted to jump back into the flow as I saw the life of others and began to become enraged at my stagnation.

    Suddenly, I was met by a figure on the side of the road that came walking toward me. The figure turned its head to the side and wondered why I had not used my legs to get up and walk. It sat down next to me and began talking about the places it had been. Places that no wind current could have possibly taken it and went on about how beautiful the world is. I had asked the figure how it was able to do all these things and it told me that it was by simply realizing that it could.

    It asked “Where do you want to go?”. I never thought about it before… the option never seemed possible. As I lie there, I began to think about my ideal journey and what it would look like. After visualizing such a beautiful expedition, I felt so compelled to experience it that I looked down, realized I had legs, got up, and began walking.

    Just like a dream, you only begin to take control of it the moment you realize you are dreaming. The current may not stop for you, but you don’t have to stop at the current. You can step out anytime you’d like and choose your own path.

Inspiration and Motivation for the modern Business Woman